It was my fifth birthday. Mom headed to work in San Francisco, California after dropping Ross, my four-year-old brother, and me off at nursery
school. From the instant I awoke, I waited for the day to end. At nursery school I told Crystal, the most beautiful black girl ever, I had a cake coming that night after dinner.
The
magic moment arrived for my mother to pick Ross and me up from nursery school.
On the front passenger seat of our red Volvo station wagon, I saw my cake box. I asked Mom if she could
drive home a little faster. Looking at me from her rear view mirror, she said
she would try.
Ross pulled a funny trick on the way home and began
making siren noises while we crouched on the floorboard of the back seat. Ross
told her she was speeding and would probably get a ticket. Mom pulled the car
over to the side of the road and waited. When no police car appeared, she heard
our muffled giggles. Reaching her 12-foot-long arm into the back seat, Mom
could not grab either of us. Exhausted from another day’s work as a single
mother, she slowly put the pedal to the metal and continued the drive home.
Standing in our tiny kitchen, my mother asked me, the
birthday girl, what I wanted for dinner. With tremendous excitement, I declared,
“Dinner shot out of a cannon!” This meant breakfast-style food for dinner, the
fastest meal in town.
After dinner, Ross and I cleared the dishes from the
kitchen table; my grand event finally arrived. Out of the box came an elegant,
small lemon cake with cream cheese frosting. The edges were lined in pink and
yellow rosettes. My mother intentionally handed me a spatula, instead of a
knife, and said I could cut the cake. My mother began washing the dishes;
thankfully, her back was turned away from Ross and me.
With Ross standing as close as possible, I held up
the spatula as a sword for his big blue eyes to see, translating my deafening
non-verbal message, “Don’t you even think
about coming near my cake!” Without saying a word, my mother sensed my selfish
and greedy demeanor, so she interjected over her shoulder, “And Ross gets to
choose the first piece.” With disbelief and even bigger blue eyes, I screamed, “WWWHHHAAATTT???!!!”
Grabbing my cake from the kitchen
table, I gingerly placed it on the kitchen floor. So I would be eye-level with
it, I laid down flat on the floor to get a bird’s eye view for the precise cut.
Ross laid down next to me, resting his chin on his folded hands. I measured
where to cut the cake into pieces so Ross would not have even one granule more.
Finally, I felt secure knowing I cut the
cake into equal portions. Using the spatula as a serving tool as well as a
knife, I gently put a piece of cake onto my plate and walked to the kitchen
table with my mouth watering. Again, my mother knew inappropriate behavior took
place and told me to hand my piece of cake to Ross. Tears began to well up by now; I was positive
I would have no birthday cake.
Being me has never been easy,
however, it is the memories of how I treated my younger brother while growing
up, which are difficult to swallow. With Ross no longer living, I think about
my birthday night and wish I had done things differently. I long to go back to
the evening of April 2, 1965. If this were possible, I would hand the spatula to
Ross and say, “It’s my birthday and I want you to cut the cake.”
Me and Ross, 1965
* Today, March 30th, Ross, my late brother, would be 55-years-old.
Memoir Contest Winner: Deborah Gilson for "Cut the Cake"
Memoir Contest Winner: Deborah Gilson for "Cut the Cake"
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